I think the most controversial aspect of growing up is realizing that some people are no good for you.
Sad but true, regardless of who that person is you have to make the conscious decision of whether or not they are a positive or negative catalyst.
When you stare your goals and aspirations in the eyes, some people simply have no place in making those dreams a reality.
This is when one must decide if those past relationships are bigger than the dreams you are determined to achieve.
(Source : wtd-vagabond)